Healing for Damaged Emotions

As a wounded soul, I needed two things: 1 - A listening ear. 2 - An emotional hugWhat I got were the same two things you will find in this book: 1 - "Here's what is wrong with you." 2 - "Here's what you need to do."

Very helpful. Not judgmental or mean spirited, the author gives his testimony of living and participating in the the shepherding movement. The need for accountability among certain leaders and the subsequent ideas were good and made sense. But what may have begun in the Spirit, became fueled by the flesh. I read this book because my experience in the movement was similar to the author's; I have learned hard lessons since leaving it. Though the "leaders" were merely men, I allowed myself to believe what they taught without question; they interpreted the Word of God with an agenda. My blind loyalty to men transcended my loyalty to God. His word became secondary in my faith. In my heart, I followed men and not God. My loyalty rested in the pleasing of men and not in following the Holy Spirit. I was deceived, but God in His mercy, showed me my sin of idolatry.The author is adamant that God's truth prevails. We are to study God's word in context, with the Holy Spirit speaking to our hearts. We nurture our personal relationship with God; we grow as the Holy Spirit makes Jesus real to us. His Word comes alive as we press into Him.The topic of forgiveness is included as imperative to moving forward - those who may have harmed our faith, or even our lives, as well as forgiving ourselves. There is no other way to leave the past behind and press on to the life we have been called to live for His glory.I'd recommend this book to anyone who was in the shepherding (or discipleship) movement to root out any self condemnation, "justified" resentment, or confusion in their relationship with God.

This book dealt with an important issue for Christians, i.e. emotional challenges. Some persons discount emotional challenges among Christians, believing that Christians should be cured or automatically recover even they accept Christ. Seamands focused on perfectionism, depression and showed how they are influenced by our background. He showed how they can be overcome.I would have rated this book 4.5 out that were possible. My interest level went down for about two chapters in the middle of the book but perhaps that section was not relevant for me.

There are so many Christians today, many who are in ministry, who are hurting because of not seeking healing of areas in their lives regarding past experiences that are difficult to talk about. Many of our churches today are not in a posture to help their members who have damaged emotions. This book was like a therapeutic counseling session which helped me see my past hurtful experiences from God's perspective. I now can continue on my path to being healed of my damaged emotions because I have a Father who loves me unconditionally and understands where I am in the healing process and He is the one that will cause all things, even my past hurts, to work together for my good and to bring Him glory.

We all know what it takes to survive a storm like a hurricane. Either you hunker down and wait it out or you get as far away from the storm as possible. I've survived hurricanes and also survived many emotional storms. For some reason the emotional storms I've experienced always lasted years while hurricanes only threatened me for a few days. In this book David Seamonds discusses the types of storms that rage within the human soul. He explains depression, low self-esteem and perfectionism and how they can ruin your life. He also gives suggestions for how to effectively heal from the trauma of life. I felt that this book was straight talk for real life issues. Is it really as simple as becoming more grateful for the life we now have? I'd say this is key in overcoming depression for sure. I felt I agreed with most of this book except for the idea that people who have been abused have some responsibility in the matter. I don't think a child can be responsible for being abused. But apart from that this is an excellent book that will spark conversations with those you love. It will help you see situations more clearly and maybe you can give hope to a fellow human.~The Rebecca Review

I found the book to be a quick read with some interesting biblical references. An area that I had some problem with was with the topic of children and the original sin. I recognize the fact that Adam and Eve did commit the original sin; however, saying we are predisposed to sin in childhood is a stretch for me. I have two young children (4 and 2) and I am beginning to see my 4 year old starting to want to not tell the whole story. It is my belief if you haven't studied the bible and haven't become a Disciple of Christ prior to being baptized, how can we say (judge) that children are predisposed to evil. I think of Jesus saying not to hinder the children and let them come to him. I often think children are in a protected category for a time. Another area that I found interesting is the term 'witnessing'. I am not sure why we, as Christians, use this term, when in fact it is really 'sharing our faith'. Just sounds weird. On the content of the book itself, I found it to be very interesting and the usage of scripture appropriate. I think that there are books out there that deal with more specifics, I believe that the intent is more of an overview and to start you on the path of healing.Once you get beyond the minor issues, I would recommend the book.

If you are struggling with the past and letting go, I highly recommend this book. It was very instrumental in helping me get over some issues in my past and some poor ideas I had about people that improved my life for the better.

Having come out of various new age belief systems with its emphasis on self-help, hoping to bring healing and peace of mind in my life, I am aware of the various belief systems which claim to bring wholeness and healing. I was looking forward to reading this book, in particular after having read many reviews on it, to read for myself if there were any godly counsel given to help a family member to receive emotional healing through coming to faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.I was so disappointed to discover that the author appears at first to cloak his counsel with various scripture, giving the appearance of this being a biblically sound piece of writing, but it really is only a selection of psychological psyco-babble wrapped up in a pretty biblical bow which can easily mislead and deceive anyone who has not read the Bible and have come to the powerful reality that upon salvation of the soul through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, healing and peace and all the things which everyone is searching for through self-help avenues, can only be achieved in The Physician. I know this for a fact because I have been healed of everything that I struggled with (addictions to drugs/alcohol crippling depression, phobias and fears) through coming to Jesus and being saved by Him. I only realised that this cure came through being born-again ( John 3:3 KJBIBLE), and that through the Bible I am helped, encouraged and led to sustain this wonderful newness of life.I was expecting the author of this book to point those who are hurting and struggling to Jesus and His promises in the Bible, but instead he mentions many methods of self-healing which are questionable in their origins and ineffective in their ability to heal...I know, because I tried these various methods before I came to be saved, and although they have some amount of effectiveness in encouraging one to feel ones feelings, in reality further on down the road it doesn't lead to healing of the emotions. Actually it can even magnify the depression even more with its digging up of old emotions.It makes sense to go to our Creator who knows all things anyway, all of our pains, hurts and memories, and ask Him for help...He never refuses.I truly believe that this book is new age philosophy disguised as godly counsel, and is not worth the paper its written on. If you're considering buying, don't bother. Instead seek The One who heals and makes completely whole. By His grace He did it for me, He is willing to do it for you too...if you would only ask.Ps. Please read the King James Bible...the truth is contained therein. Be saved! Find out about the gospel of your salvation ( about Jesus' death, burial and resurrection)I never knew any of this when I cried out to Him to help me when I had just had enough of living. But He responded and brought me to understand more through the Bible and through the testimonies of many on youtube who are coming to be saved. If interested look up Jesus Christ testimonies on youtube, there are thousands coming to Christ.Your life will never be the same again. Mine has changed beyond my wildest dreams...finally I am happy!!I pray that you find this joy too:)

I found this an interesting read and felt it very relevant to my personal circumstances.I find it practical and helpful and would recommend it.*****You are very welcome to ask any questions about my experience with this product.If you found this review helpful, please click on the “Yes” button below.*****

I found this book to be most encouraging. From a tragic and dysfunctional background myself, I wish I had had access to the author's wisdom and spiritual insight years ago. As a mentor I shall certainly recommend this book to many whom I know will find great help and encouragement through reading and applying the helpful and Godly teaching to their own lives.

Prompt delivery. Pleased I could get this updated book.

A brilliant book showing how we react to things which happened to us in the past and how we can get healing and the power to forgive through prayer in Jesus. Sensitively written with good examples.