Courage To Be Disliked (International Edition) Paperback – International Edition, January 1, 2019

The Courage to Be Disliked completely transformed the way I see myself, my relationships, and the world around me. This book is more than just self-help—it’s a deep, thought-provoking conversation that challenges everything you think you know about happiness, freedom, and interpersonal relationships.What I love most is its simplicity and clarity. The dialogue-style format makes complex psychological ideas easy to understand, and the lessons hit hard. The biggest takeaway for me? We are not controlled by our past, and we don’t have to live for the approval of others. That truth alone felt so freeing.It’s not always an easy read—not because it’s difficult, but because it forces you to confront deeply ingrained beliefs about validation, control, and personal responsibility. But if you’re open to it, this book can shift your entire mindset.I’ve read a lot of personal growth books, but The Courage to Be Disliked is one I’ll return to again and again. If you’re ready to stop overthinking, let go of what others think, and embrace true freedom, this book is a must-read.

Do you love personal growth and consistently strive for self improvement? Do you struggle to free yourself from past traumas? I have read dozens of books on human nature, spiritual growth, enlightment, and similar topics. NEVER has a book so clearly held up the mirror as this one has. I'm only 70 pages in and already see multiple ways in which I make excuses NOT to take responsibility for my life. This book truly inspires you to find the courage it takes to go from who you are to who you want to be. This is a MUST read for enlightment seekers, people who deal with depression, anyone believing their past causes them to be the way they are, and all people who want to take control of their life. HIGHLY RECOMMEND!!!

Good book. I like how the man and the boy go back and forth. Very insightful and makes you think.

Practical guide to ease your life and find happiness. Easy and fun to read. Simple but deep. Great book!! Glad I found it!!

I really enjoyed reading this book because it aligns with my beliefs and I think it’s an easy philosophy book for everybody.

Hello! My name is Monica, and I am a people pleaser. When I saw The Courage to be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga I knew I needed to read it. The courage to be disliked is something I need in my life!The cover of the book is simple, yet elegant. Peaceful. I like the colors and the image. It’s definitely inviting. I was very excited to read it and gain all this wisdom and knowledge—and change my life!Then, I opened the book to the introduction. Maybe I should have realized this beforehand, but I didn’t. The entire book is written in dialogue form. The whole thing is a big conversation. Honestly, I was upset but decided to give it a try and keep reading.I’m sure there are great amounts of wisdom in this book, but I don’t think I’m smart enough to glean them from the text. I read the whole book, and the conversational format completely threw me off.Philosophy is not my jam. I know the names of Freud, Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle, but I have no idea what they taught or discussed. Yes, I’m showing my own ineptitude here, but that’s why I wanted to read the book. I wanted to learn and understand more about philosophy. In my opinion, this book is not the way to go to do that.What did I want? Well, I need a philosophy for dummies book. Start at the very beginning and explain, in detail, who the philosophers are and what they believe or teach. Give definitions, examples, and more examples so I can highlight them, take notes in the margins, and have time to think and process the info. The conversational format did not allow for that at all. The conversation moved on and left my understanding lying on the ground behind it.Another thing I had a difficult time with was that there are several anti-Christian references, which I didn't like. He also makes it seem like you can just think your way out of ADHD and mental illness. Sorry--I live with and love a few people with ADHD and mental illness, and it’s not that easy.If you have more of a background in philosophy and psychology, and if you understand the different philosophies of Freud and Adler, then this book may be more for you!Did I gain the courage to be disliked from The Courage to be Disliked? Ummmm…no. Sadly, I did not. It’s ok, though! I’ll keep working on it!Content Rating: PG-Profanity: None-Intimacy: None-Violence: NoneAge Recommendation: 16+ (Younger readers will not understand or care.)3/5 stars