Surrender, Submit, Serve Her: The Definitive Guide to Enacting Female Leadership and Embracing the Female Dominated Household

Book arrived as estimated and has some interesting concepts.

This book has some interesting points about wife-dominant marriage, but the proposed arrangement would end up disastrous for many couples. Indeed, the author says that it can work for only 10 or 15 per cent of readers.Here's my opinion and worth every cent. Female dominance outside of marriage is a set-up for the woman to rob and ditch her idiot submissive male. (Not to say that men are more honest and trustworthy---far from it.) And within marriage, neither spouse ever deserves impunity from cruel, wrongful, or negligent behavior. This author proposes for the woman to decide all matters of consequence with the man "required" to "support" her every decision "fully," no matter if he opposed it earlier or how catastrophic it turns out. To wit, the man forfeits his right to an opinion and to innocence from the woman's misdeed. Putting it straightly, she gets to violate his humanity.Supposing that a dominant husband, over his wife's protest, or after forcing her acquiescence, or without her knowing, were to place all their joint wealth in a sure-fire investment only for it to go straight to hell. Then in justice he would owe his wife a prompt and full confession, followed by an apology plus almost-total surrender of finances to her or a reputable third party; next a long-term plan for him personally to restore their wasted assets. If he must work until age 70 and eat sack lunches up to then, or forgo a new car for 10 or 12 years, so be it. If he finds this humiliating and insulting, all the better until he wises up.And if a dominant wife were to do anything that stupid? Then same-same exactly. The idea is for any controlling spouse to be MORE, not less answerable for her or his conduct and its outcomes. For the less power is constrained by limits and consequences, the likelier it will be abused.Within bounds of love, regard for human dignity, and plain sense, some wife-dominant marriages may serve the couples very well, for all I know. My wife dominates in a way that I eagerly submit to. I am encouraging her toward more. She likes me to manage our finances. I'm better at this and I enjoy it. She trusts me. I stay worthy of her trust. She can ask or look at what I'm doing any time. She does not want the burden of rule in our marriage. I want to serve our interests and her pleasure. We have a great marriage.The best books on wife-dominant marriage that I have read are Rebecca Lawson's Good Wife's Guide To Taking Charge, and Dominatrix 101/201. Whoever hasn't read those, why not choose them both, right from this site?

Key Barrett, M.Sc. is one of the authors in the growing new line of FLR books to provide a FLR framework without BDSM kink. Ten years ago, the FLR relationship was a fetish/kink and very rare for couples to adopt. We tried and it just didn't work. Books included elements that one or both people in a relationship found difficult to practice. These new books (this one among several others), absent BDSM kink are refreshing additions.My wife and I read it cover to cover twice. Three times per week, we read out loud for 30 minutes before going to bed and discussed as we went along. My wife and I have reordered our relationship into a female dominated household where she is the leader, and I am the subordinate. We mostly follow the suggestions in the book, but not all. As is recommended, she picked and chose elements that fit her wishes.We do have a weekly meeting, as the book suggests. She also makes all the big decisions, delegates several chores, and my pay is direct deposited into an account at her bank I do not have access to (unless I use a teller window). I compile a list of bills and total the amount each pay cycle. She Zella's me the funds to pay the bills from my bank account. All other money, I need to ask her for. She is now free to spend how she sees fit with the combined disposable income.Family vacationing, child rearing methods, where we live (we are moving soon), and all other big decisions are made by her now. Sometimes she asked my input before making a decision and other times she simply let me know what is happening. I feel at ease and a sense of support and seeing things from her perspective has developed, making my role feel rewarding. I know it doesn't seem like it should, but that is the truth. FLR when working, is the natural order, IMHO. It need be experienced to understand. Words do not convey it well.This book was tremendously helpful for us and I thank the author for his efforts.

I enjoyed reading this one. The writing is good, the sub topics were carefully chosen, and it has a clear mission of guidance for any couple that would like to transition to a female led household.Too many ebooks on the subject are poorly constructed. The writing is poor. More importantly, there is a heavy handed emphasis on female superiority that is very unattractive. Female superiority as a concept is the basis for one of the kink subcultures. Fortunately, this author gave a balanced treatment of what female led relationship means. It is one way of deliberately arranging power and control in the relationship. With a lot of conscious thought, true consent, and setting a clear intention a couple can both reduce stress and really enjoy each other. FLR can be a lot of fun. An FLR is meant to be beneficial to both partners. Checking in with your partner on a regular basis is key.I, personally, hate the porn depictions of femdom in which the female rules by intimidation and various forms of violence. Anyone can see that this is a nasty mimicry of male domination. Historically, female leadership has been very different. It’s core is based on collaboration and care. Mistress Sky, author, Unequal Partnership

The advice given is practical and useful. Both of us are new to this lifestyle. I love serving my wife and she loves being served. The book provokes thought and has great ideas. There are no outrageous parts of the book. We both read it separately.

Not bad a bit one sided . But I didn't expect it to be different

I dony know what the issue is on this book.