How to Stop Time: Heroin from A to Z

I bought this book because I have more than one addict in my life. I struggle to understand them and read anything I can find just to try to make sense of it all. They are all very different, one guy and two girls, all from different backgrounds, but still ended up at the same place.The first Nar-Anon meeting I ever went to, they had a speaker, a 20 something girl who was 18 months clean. She told us her whole story from beginning to end and she was very open about everything we asked. I've wished many times since then that I could call her up and ask her things.I feel like she could have written this book. It helped me understand why they do what they do, why they probably started, why they don't want to stop, and why this drug is all that matters to them while their entire worlds falls apart. It has answered questions I didn't know to ask at that first meeting, and made sense of so many things for me. I know a lot of people don't like the dictionary style this book is written in. They wanted more of a flowing story from beginning to end. But that's my favorite part, I love how I can pick it up when I just have a few minutes and read one small section. She covers so many different things from her family background to her first time to copping to how she thinks about her drug use... it's all here. I highly recommend this book to anyone struggling to understand their addict.Note: Like many people, I rely heavily on Amazon reviews before making almost any purchase, online or in brick-and-mortar stores. I am always honest with my reviews. If I love something, I shout it from the rooftops. And if I hate it, I have no problem telling you that too. If you found this review helpful, please click the button below :-)

There's this law in economics called the 80/20 principle, or "Pareto's Law", named after Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto. The 80/20 principle asserts that a minority of causes, inputs, or effort usually leads to a majority of the results, outputs, or rewards. For example, eighty percent of what you achieve in your job comes from twenty percent of your time spent working. In business, you could say that twenty percent of products usually account for eighty percent of dollar sales value, or twenty percent of customers usually account for eighty percent of profits. It goes on and on: twenty percent of motorists cause eighty percent of accidents, twenty percent of those who marry comprise eighty percent of divorce statistics, and twenty percent of criminals account for eighty percent of all crime. (You can read about this in the book, "The 80/20 Principle" by Richard Koch.) The 80/20 principle applies to addiction as well. Twenty percent of the people who use drugs account for eighty percent of all problems in our society caused by drug use. So, if I may extrapolate here, I would say that twenty percent of all people who use drugs become addicted. That leaves a lot of people who use drugs who don't become addicts, just as probably eighty percent of people who drink don't become alcoholics. Unfortunately, I'm one of those twenty percenters. If I could blame someone for all my relapses (I can't), I would blame those eighty percenters who seem to be able to use without any damaging consequences. If they can do it, why can't I? Ann Marlowe, who wrote "How to Stop Time: Heroin from A to Z", is one of those eighty percenters. And for some reason, she decided to write a memoir about addiction. Let me start off by saying she wrote a very interesting and entertaining book. I couldn't put it down...the same way I can't look away from a car crash. But what you've got is, basically, like a social drinker trying to write about what it's like to be an alcoholic. She says that taking heroin is a habit that requires self-discipline. Really? She disputes William Burroughs' characterization of addiction as "uncontrollable need." Mr. Burroughs was only, like, the God of junkie-dom. She's even made a confounding case that the the reason junkies use is because they actually want to be addicted. Wow! Marlowe had me laughing out loud at her convoluted, elaborate arguments about the true nature of heroin use and addiction, which reminded me that there are few absolutes in this life. We don't see the world as it really is, we see it as we are. Again, this was a fascinating, if not sometimes exhausting (she sent me to the dictionary a couple of times - valetudinarian?) read. But Marlowe's no expert on addiction and maybe she's not trying to be. Maybe she just pushed my intellectual-inferiority-complex buttons one too many times. After all, she is a Jewish, Ivy league-educated woman from New York City and I'm just a white boy from Alabama biding my time in prison.Written by David Allan ReevesAuthor of "Running Away From Me"

Brilliant. Beautiful, economical, evocative American prose. Anti-Romantic, neither a narrative of descent-and-redemption nor infatuation-then-remorse, instead unsentimentally critical. Deliberately non-linear: it's not a "story", it's a work of cultural criticism, where the "chapters" are short essays rather than sequential moments of autobiography. It reminds me of Adorno's *Minima Moralia* in its tone and literary quality. Truly brilliant.

Read it when it first came out in the middle of re-reading again She really knows how to hate you in the right spot with her description she’s a very realistic writer that talks to you on your level

The alphabet format takes away from the potential power of the story. Should be gritty, tries to be literary, isn't either.

great book

I took this book out from the library with the expectation that I would skim it quickly, hopefully finding a few good quotes for an essay I'm writing. Once I started, however, I could not stop myself from reading each and every captivating word. In How to Stop Time, Ann Marlowe takes us through her life from the lens of her heroin addiction. While she claims that she wasn't a junkie or hardcore addict like many of her friends, the drug definitely seemed to be a large part of her life and she was certainly dependent on it.The most notable part of this memoir was its structure-- the book was set up like a dictionary, stories and memories prompted by an alphabetical list of words (thus Heroin from A to Z). While other readers may have found this a bit gimmick-y, I truly enjoyed the shift from traditional memoir structure. As a fellow writer, it made me truly reflect on Marlowe's control of her words and writing-- something that I truly envy.I'd really recommend this for anyone interested in memoirs, specifically those pertaining to addiction. I've read a lot of eating disorder memoirs-- not traditionally thought of as "addictions," but over the years I have realized that my own battle with anorexia was an addiction in and of itself.5 STARS *****

Great book to understand the supported and issues around substance misuse issues

Loved the way it was set out A-Z. I jumped about and ended up re-reading parts and enjoying it more.

GOOD READ