Trustworthy Connections: Interpersonal Issues in Spiritual Direction Paperback – January 25, 2004

Beautifully written; straight forword and addresses everything you need to know about being a spiritual director. Silver explores each side of issues and address the pros and cons of each. Silver gives you the tools you need to begin spiritual direction, as well as exploring issues that would benifit even the most seasoned director. This book was obviously written by an author who has many years of experence as a spiritual director, and as a psychologist she is able to explain how spiritual direction is different than therapy in a very focused, straight forward, and clear way . I would highly recommend this book! It is a must for anyone who is called to be a spiritual director...you owe it to yourself and to your directees to read this book and use it as a tool and reference throughout your ministry.

This is such an import book in today's world because of the abuse across all faiths! I highly recommend it to people in ministerial positions!

This is the book I wish I had before I began Spiritual Direction. I recall being abble to ask only the most general questions. I had read a number of books about Spiritual Direction (I prefer Spiritual Companionship) but had read nothing of the nature of the actual interactive relationship. The chapter on What to expect from SD I found very helpful in retrospect. The issues around dual relationships (pastor/director) etc is well addressed and the book contains the codes of ethics of the two major organizations of SD's. I highly recommend this to anyone considering spiritual direction or already in it, or considering becoming a director.

This book is loaded with important information about the practice of Spiritual Direction. The author shares examples at the beginning of each chapter which help to explain the kinds of ethical situations she is considering in the chapter. I have not found a book yet which deals with these aspects of being a Spiritual Director and yet they are crucial parts. Thanks for choosing to write the book!

As the practice of spiritual direction is growing in religious communities that have no history of that mode of spiritual dialogue, it is essential to approach it with mindfulness and awareness. This book clearly and honestly addresses the complexities of the interpersonal issues that are involved. It reflects literacy in both the spiritual and the psychological arenas. The concepts discussed are sometimes difficult to address, but the writing is direct and easily understandable. I learned a lot from this book.

A great resource for beginning spiritual directors and a refresher for the more seasoned ones. Easy to read and filled with practical guidance and questions for further thought.I selected this book for a graduate level Spiritual Directors training class for those exploring this ministry.

The product was as advertised and arrived in a timely way.

Accessible, practical, realistic, engaging!

Every experienced spiritual director should have this book on their bookshelf.