Happily Ever After: Walking with Peace and Courage Through a Year of Divorce

This may seem a little odd, but I am neither divorcing nor divorced; and I am a guy. I will tell you that this book of daily thoughts and meditations does have a perspective geared toward women and toward divorce. I would also say that men can benefit from this book too and about 95% of what is in the book is geared toward God's blessing and provision in any challenging situation or life disappointment. Ours happened to surround an adolescent daughter; and everything that accompanied that entire situation. If you think about it, there are lots of situations in life that involve unexpected change, loss, separation, etc. Divorce is only one of them.I would recommend this book to anyone - male or female; who is or has walked through a "valley of the shadow". It will change you and help restore you. You will learn that no matter how hard you tried or what walk of life you are from, that you are not alone, and you are not the first person something bad has happened to. You will also learn, in small readings that take 3-5 minutes each day to get through, that you have a watchful, loving and caring God, who sees, knows, helps, and understands.God bless you in your journey.

I started using this devotional about 4 months after I surprisingly split from my husband of almost 21 years. I was completely devastated and trying my best to help myself to deal with all the fallout. I had numerous other devotionals that I was reading as well but always ended my prayer time with Kristin's book. This devotional was always hopeful. And believe me you need hope when you are going through a divorce! Each entry was helpful, grounded in common sense and tied to God's Word. I loved how it would start my day with positive, hopeful thinking. If I ever have any friends that are unfortunate to go through a divorce in the future I will be buying this book for them and telling them they must read it everyday. Thanks Kristin for helping me along in the healing process.

While the book is written for women going through divorce, I am neither. Some parts are clearly for women, I just read them anyway. The book is encouraging and inspiring for everyone, in any situation. I read one devotional every day, and wen I finish the book I start over. Again and again. Kristin is a plain, from the heart writer. Read it with an open heart and you will not be disappointed. I have given several of my copies away, pencil marks and post it notes included. It is not condescending or pompous at all, just real, and comforting. Try it.

If you are walking through divorce, get this book and read it every day. It soothes your heart.

I'm so sad that this devotional is out of print. Kristin Armstrong has hit it out of the ballpark with her insights and advice.

While searching for a book to guide me through the pain a divorce at age 65 I stumbled upon this treasure. God must have directed me to it as it has given me the strength and courage to continue this unpleasant journey. I find myself reading more than one message per day as it seems that each days reading is directed specifically at me. I scheduled an appointment for counseling but found no need to go as this book has given me everything I need to make it through this difficult time. I can never thank Kristin Armstrong enough for taking the time to share her thoughts and feelings in this remarkable book.

I find parts of my reading to be encouraging. However, I don't relate to her emotions to drive her messages per se.Cons: Other parts the author writes rubs me the wrong way. I feel she "talks down" or gives pat answers. Possibly in order to assert her authority. For example, page 13 "think about it, if you knew what you were doing, would you be here? Sweetheart...". So, is implied that I'm either thick headed or I'm ignorant? Yikes. Wait a moment, divorce is more complex. Page 17 shows how relying on day to day things hinders healing. So her answer is a pat answer, "Jesus Christ" only. In need her to show me HOW to use the tools I ALREADY have in various scenarios. One quick specific take away of how to apply "Christ Only". On Page 19, " I felt like a warrior, not a coward. So will you." How do you know how I feel right now? Personally, I've never felt or believed myself to be a "terrified... weak and wimpy" . I've always felt God has given me courage since childhood. I'm not better. I have my issues and emotions. But I've graduated from Evangelical Christian pat answers....not really addressing the grey, and harping on emotions to drive home a sense of authority and relate ability.It's intent is nice and a quick daily read.

The dear author of this book has been silent in the past year. This book gives beautiful testimony that we often are faced with insurmountable situations, but with the gift of forgiveness through the tremendous price Christ paid for us on the Cross and placing our full trust in Him, there is hope. I have given away at least 10+ copies of this book to friends and associates who need a lift while dealing with life's challenges. I have read her other books and have gifted them as well. I do hope Kristin is able to keep writing as everyone should be able to find inspiration in what she has to say.

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